To be like Jane Eyre ~

One of the energies up in my life on this road to being my sweet, hot self is to not be a VICTIM in my life!
This is a big one. I have been a victim many times in my life, my circumstances have been someone else's fault. My unbearable marriage was his fault, my lack of something was my parents fault, on and on.
I came to understand a long time ago that this is my journey, I create my life and I alone! Meaning I am never a victim to another persons or things will or whim. I am responsible to by own manifestation and energies in my life. Whether its karmic or something else. It is mine.
I have been taking a close look at this recently and it has been amusing.
There havebeen some "bullies" in my life and I have taken a step back and time to reflect and notice this energy, asking it to show me the way to my beautiful strong self through it.
I like what has transpired and have loved myself through it.
I pulled out my Goddess cards and of course Sedna "the victim" showed herself to me. She told me to dance my victim. I will do just that. Tara was there for centering and Cerridwen was there to for birth & death. All the energies for a wonderful transformation into Being powerful. I stood my ground when before I may have wavered to keep the peace. I stated what I was willing to compromise on and what I would not. I feel I was strong & fair. After the smoke had cleared, all was well and the things I saw as bullies revealed themselves as just tools, guides if you will on my journey.
I had to remind myself that the path to love is not always skipping through the tulips...yet.
As I was eating my yummy salad after a long day at work, I put Jane Eyre on netflix. No real reason, just thought I'll watch this for a bit. Well, there she was, strong, obstinate and full of integrity. Jane Eyre could have easily fell victim to her shitty circumstances, instead she kept her heart and mind strong and full of her truth and marched onward. She is a beautiful & glorious archetype in my life now and I wanted to share her with you, just incase you had never seen her or had forgotten.
To own your HOTTIE you need to watch or READ Jane Eyre and bring her beautiful strength and her spirit into your heart and let it shine out of you.
She is you and she can make a difference in your life by letting her guide you when life may seem as if the bullies are picking on you.
I also recommend getting the Goddess Oracle cards by Amy Sophia Marashinsky. Guides have an easier time talking to us sometimes through cards and also nature.
That is all for now, I love you and remember to stand up for what you feel in your heart is the best and highest for you. You are a Hottie and deserve it!
p.s. "Bullies" are just your angels, guides whatever you call them, reminding you to stand up!